One of the most caring, loving things you can do for your family is to leave them with detailed pre-arranged funeral information regarding your death, which will then allow them to make a personal tribute the way you wanted.
Making funeral arrangements at the time of a loss is extremely difficult for those left behind. When the funeral services and financial payments have been arranged in advanced, most of the decisions have been made, sparing uncertainty and confusion at a time when emotional stress may make decisions difficult.